39

by Ethan G - 9/03/12 10:27 PM

i am a sophomore in high school and i have very strong feelings for a girl i know, about a year back the number 39 was a daily number in my life and was popping up everywhere i looked, and then they suddenly stopped halfway through my freshman year. i found no meaning for the occurrence then and i want to know if it can help me tell this girl how i feel. now i don't just have stupid i like you feelings, i would die for her and when I'm not near her i feel like my whole body is shutting down. i have cried myself to sleep some nights thinking of her. we are good friends but i want to take things further and be in a larger relationship with her. the only problem is that i haven't the slightest clue how to tell her and i feel like if i say the wrong thing to her than we will no longer be friends even though she isn't the kind of person who would do that. please help me, i am dieing without he and i desperately need help before its too late.

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RE: 39

by Anonymous - 9/04/12 10:58 AM

dear ethan...tell her that you are sexually attracted of her at times( do it with a smile ) but still care about her as a friend.By saying sexual attraction you can't go wrong but if you tell her that you love her and if she doesn't respond with the same feelings you'll scare her off!!

RE: 39

by Anonymous - 9/04/12 11:03 AM

But you know what if she is smart she might already know that you have feelings for her and she ignore it because she might not want anything more than a friendship.Pay attention to what she is saying..how she reacts when you flirt with her if you do flirt with her.And the most important don't show your desperation when you are around her, play it cool..Nobody likes needy people.

RE: 39

by Anonymous - 9/04/12 11:08 AM

Don't forget that everybody is replaceable!If you aren't her type then that's it, you can't be with someone against their desire...let it go...is hard at times but you have to educate yourself

one more thing

by Ethan Gilliam - 9/04/12 3:20 PM

i wish to add that the occurrence of the number 39 stopped almost instantly around the same time i started to have feelings for this girl. i don,t know what that means but maybe it will help anyone trying to give me an answer.